In the 90s, finding the ‘proper’ way to word your wedding invitations is no easy task! Whether your parents are divorced, you live with an aunt or your grandparents, or you are hosting the wedding yourself, the following examples will be sure to help you with your invitation wording.
Formal invitations
an invitation from the bride’s parents:
Mr and Mrs Anthony James
request the pleasure of the company of__________________________
at the marriage of their daughter
Susan Louise
with
David Matthew Johnsonat
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook
An invitation from the groom’s parents:
Mr and Mrs Arthur Johnson
request the pleasure of the company of????????????????
at the marriage of
Ms Susan Louise James
to their son
Mr David Matthew Johnsonat
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook
An invitation from a divorced family – If your parents are divorced and you live with your mother, she should issue the wedding invitations. Likewise, if you live with your father, he should issue the invitations. However, in most divorced families, it is the bride’s mother who issues the wedding invitations. If she has remarried or changed her name, the bride’s surname should be printed on the invitations.
Mr and Mrs Saul Bell
request the pleasure of the company of????????????????.
at the marriage of her daughter
Elizabeth Jane Dawsonwith
Simon Peter Masters
at
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook
An invitation from another family member – If another member of your family will be hosting the wedding, such as an aunt or your grandparents, this should be made clear.
An invitation from the her grandparents:
Mr and Mrs Robert Allan
request the pleasure of the company of????????????????
at the marriage of their granddaughter
Melissa Annwith
Ian Walter Davidson
at
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, WestbrookAn invitation from the bride and groom:
The pleasure of the company of
?????????????.
is requested
at the marriage of
Fiona Anne Parsonswith
James Michael Wallace
at
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook
Informal invitations
Informal invitations can be handwritten in letter form, or purchased as pre-printed stationery where the details simply need to be filled in.
an invitation from the bride’s parents:
Dear Robyn,
On Saturday, 25th April, at 5.30pm, our daughter, Patricia Janice, will marry Joel Andrews at St Andrew’s Church, Westbrook.
Following the ceremony, a reception will be held at Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook. We would be delighted if you could join us on this happy occasion.
Yours sincerely,
Pamela and Andrew Brooks
An invitation from the bride and groom
Dear Robyn,
It would give us great pleasure if you would be able to join us at St Andrew’s Church, Westbrook, for our wedding on Saturday, 25th April, 1998.
Following the ceremony, a reception will be held at Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook.
Your reply would be appreciated by the 10th April.
Yours sincerely,
Patricia Brooks and Joel Andrews
Using different wording
If you feel that the more traditional wording is not quite your style, why not consider something different?
An invitation where the bride and groom’s families are sharing the cost of the wedding:
Mr and Mrs Paul Soloman
and
Mr and Mrs Robert Brown
invite
???????????
to share in the joy
of the marriage ofSarah Jane
and
Patrick Thomas
this celebration of their love will held at
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand rejoiced in afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook
An invitation where the bride and groom will be paying for the wedding, but they still want to include their parents on the invitations:
Sarah Jane Soloman
and
Patrick Thomas Brown
request the pleasure of the company of
????????????????
at
St Andrew’s Church, Westbrookon
Saturday, 25th April, 1998
at 5.30pmand afterwards at
Wateredge reception gardens, Westbrook
Whichever style of wording you choose, remember to include the following important information:
* The names of the bride and groom
* The time and place the ceremony will be held (15 minutes before the actual ceremony takes place)
* The time and address of your reception venue
* RSVP date and address or phone number.